Lord of Pleasure
Private • Discreet • 18+
A few words about me — who I am, how I think, what shaped me, and what kind of connection I’m looking for.
18+ only: This content is intended for adults.
Born in 1967, I was born in Sindelfingen. Professionally, I work as a Team Expert and Service Analyst at a company that operates call centers worldwide, and I mainly support projects in the United States. I live in Berlin—more precisely, in Spandau—and I really like my surroundings here and feel very comfortable.
Respect, discretion and trust come first. Dominance is not performance — it’s responsibility: clear, attentive, and consistent.
My tone can be tenderly guiding or strictly unmistakable. What matters is authenticity — and boundaries that always stand.
I believe we’re shaped by details: where we come from, what we dare, what we learn. I was born in 1967 and originally come from Sindelfingen. Today I live in the Herrenberg region.
Appearance-wise: well-groomed, slim, everyday-presentable, with a quiet sense of style. The overall impression matters to me — presence, posture, words.
No dramatic myth — more of a gradual awakening. In a relationship it started softly: curiosity, tension, first impulses. I read, researched, and realized quickly: this topic stays with me.
The first step was simple: cuffs — careful, exploratory, with the wish to understand what it does to us. It felt right. So we went further, slowly and consciously.
Over time, playful restraints became deeper bondage moments. Much of it was experimentation, keeping what worked and dropping what didn’t.
Later, dynamics emerged that go deeper: discipline, obedience, surrender — not as theatre, but as a clear language between two people. That includes rules and consequences that support the roles.
Tools were never the point. Rope, chains, gags, clamps, oils — all can be beautiful when they fit the moment and are used responsibly.
I’m drawn to women who feel a submissive, and often also masochistic, side in themselves — ideally with a touch of playful defiance.
I enjoy bondage, discipline, humiliation and degradation — always within clear agreements. For me dominance means: leading, reading, shaping — with full awareness.
Consequences don’t have to be purely physical. Sometimes psychology is stronger than pain. What matters: rules are rules — and if you step into a role, you carry it with me.
Note: Everything is based on mutual consent, clear boundaries, and the ability to stop at any time.
A previous relationship ended even though we were highly compatible in certain areas. Sometimes the intensity in play fits — but everyday life as a couple doesn’t.
Because these topics don’t come up in casual small talk, the internet is a meaningful place to meet: it shows I take this seriously and I’m not here “just to try something”.
You should be a woman with a certain level of maturity, intelligence, and openness. Most of all: curious, growth-minded, and willing to be honest.
Experience is welcome — but not required. If you’re new, I can guide you gently, if that’s what you want.
I’m capable of commitment and I value depth — but contact doesn’t have to mean “relationship” immediately. A coffee, a real conversation, a pressure-free meeting is perfectly fine.
A well-groomed appearance matters to me. Model proportions don’t — presence does. Age-wise, it tends to fit best if you’re somewhat younger (around 40 or below is ideal).
Experience, clarity, and the ability to lead consistently — without losing humanity. Strict when needed. Patient when it’s right. Attentive enough to truly read you.
I’m creative, versatile, and certainly not boring. If you’re looking for something that doesn’t stay superficial — we might find a language that belongs to us.