General Rules
These principles are the foundation for how I approach dominance, trust and responsibility. They are not designed to “trap” you — they create clarity. Clarity creates safety. Safety allows intensity to become real.
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Rule 1 – Respect & tone
Respect is non-negotiable. Not only in words, but in attitude: how you show up, how you listen, how you respond. A submissive dynamic is not an excuse for rudeness — it is a choice to be precise, attentive and respectful.
If you are unsure about tone or wording: ask. I prefer clarity over guessing games.
Rule 2 – Honesty
I would rather hear an honest “I don’t know yet” than a perfect answer that isn’t true. Your wishes, limits and fears matter. If something changes, you tell me — early.
Honesty also means: no hidden relationship drama, no secret agendas, no “testing” me. If we play, we play with real intentions.
Rule 3 – Consent & safewords
Everything we do is based on mutual consent. That includes intensity, humiliation, control — all of it. Consent is not a one-time checkbox; it is ongoing communication.
A clear stop signal must exist and must be respected immediately. If you say stop, we stop. No discussions in the moment. Afterwards we talk calmly and honestly.
Rule 4 – Discretion
Discretion protects both of us. What happens between us stays between us — including names, images, personal details and anything that could identify the other person.
If we meet in public, the rule is simple: calm, composed, no drama. The intensity belongs to us, not to the room.
Rule 5 – Reliability
Reliability is erotic. If you agree to something, you take it seriously — and so do I. That doesn’t mean perfection. It means showing effort and communicating when something isn’t possible.
Being late, cancelling, disappearing, playing hot/cold — that kills trust. Trust is the base of everything here.
Rule 6 – Cleanliness & care
Hygiene and self-care are part of respect. Clean body, clean breath, a basic level of grooming — not to meet some unrealistic ideal, but to show that you take yourself (and me) seriously.
If we meet, be prepared. If you are unsure what that means, ask beforehand.
Rule 7 – Communication after a scene
Aftercare is not optional. Intensity can open deep layers, and we handle that responsibly. We check in, we talk, we adjust. What felt good? What felt too much? What do we repeat — or not?
This is where trust grows: in how we treat each other after the heat.
Rule 8 – Boundaries are real
Boundaries are not “negotiation tricks”. If a limit is stated, it is respected. Period. We can revisit limits later — calmly — but never in the middle of pressure.
My dominance includes responsibility: reading you, protecting you, and being willing to stop. Power without responsibility is not dominance — it is immaturity.
Rule 9 – Growth & consistency
A dynamic becomes meaningful when it is consistent. If you want guidance, you must be willing to learn. That includes small routines, self-reflection and discipline.
I am patient — but I’m not casual. If we choose this path, we treat it with seriousness and depth.