Lord of Pleasure
Private • Discreet • 18+
Sometimes words are unnecessary — or not possible. Finger codes are discreet, simple signals that help us communicate mood, intention, and “how to behave” in a subtle way — even in public.
18+ only: This content is intended for adults.
A finger code is a short signal: one hand, a small gesture. The meaning is agreed beforehand. It’s not meant to “control you in public” — it’s meant to create a private channel between us.
Safety rule: if anything feels unclear, stressful or wrong, we stop and talk. Signals should create calm — not pressure.
A simple reminder to become still: fewer gestures, slower breathing, more composure. Often used to reset your posture and energy.
Typical effect: quieter presence, eyes softer, attention on me.
A subtle cue to shift into a more obedient, respectful tone: fewer arguments, more listening, shorter answers, more focus.
Not humiliation — just clarity and alignment.
A cue to adjust your posture into a “ready” state: hands visible, shoulders relaxed, attentive stance. If private, it can also mean a clear presentation posture.
Used when I want you to be mentally present without words.
A universal, discreet check-in signal: pause what we’re doing and reconnect. This is not “punishment” — it’s safety and communication.
If you feel overwhelmed, this is always allowed.
A quiet way to say: “This is getting too intense.” We soften immediately — physically or emotionally — and adjust.
The goal is trust. Trust grows when signals are respected instantly.
A positive feedback signal. It can mean: “This feels right”, “I’m okay”, or “Continue.” Useful when you’re non-verbal or focused.
We still check in regularly — this is an addition, not a replacement.
These are examples. The real system is something we define together — simple, clear, and aligned with your limits. The purpose is not secrecy for secrecy’s sake — it’s intimacy: a shared code, understood without explaining.